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Lesson: Creating an Inclusive Environment of Understanding Feelings
by Dianne Prohn, Learn NC
The students will learn about feelings and how to get along with others in group situations. Children will discuss what makes a friend, how friends make each other feel, what friends do together and how to resolve differences between friends. They will identify the qualities of friendship.
A lesson plan for Grades K–5 Guidance and Social Studies
To help children:
- recognize their own feelings
- recognize feelings of others.
- problem solve feeling in various situations.
Time required for lesson: 30 Minutes
Materials/resources
- Magazines to cut out facial expressions
- Cut-out poster circles with happy faces on one side and sad faces on the other
- Popsicle sticks
- Broken toy
Pre-activities
Letter sent to parents to explain social/play group, parents talking to their children, and several social stories on feelings.(see attachment letter.txt)
Activities
The students from general education will be rotated four at a time into a small group to be with their friends with special needs. Several different scenarios will be used. An example of a happy scenario would be “How would you feel if you got invited to your friend’s birthday party?” An example of a sad scenario would be “How would you feel if your friend broke your favorite toy?” Emotions/feelings will be discussed and children will be asked to use their happy/sad faces to respond to the different scenarios.
Follow up activity: children will find pictures in magazines and sort into categories (happy and sad).
Friends from an integrated classroom will come to a center for group time and structured play on a weekly basis.
Assessment
- A Daily Evaluation Checklist (see attachment social.txt) * A Play Time/Social Time Observation Scale (see attachment social.txt) * A smiley face necklace that children wear during group and earn two hole punches, for good listening and for taking turns
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Supplemental information
Maintenance plan: Teachers will continue to find teachable moments throughout the day to help children understand their feelings. Families will be encouraged to reinforce skills in the home and in the community. This would be one lesson of many to encourage growth and understanding about self and others.
Comments
Throughout the years researchers have been observing the ways children with and without disabilities interact with their peers. Teachers can play a significant role in helping children with and without disabilities initiate and sustain friendships. This is one example of ongoing lessons to help children understand themselves and others.

toocool4school
11 months ago
180 comments
This is such a great activity. I am a school psych and do a lot of work with kids around identifying their own feelings as well as the feelings of others. Not everyone is born intuitive about feelings, especially kids on the autistic spectrum. There is a such thing as an "EQ" I am convinced. Direct instruction such as this really works. Helping kids identify emotions on faces and in their friends is great!