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Use Caution with Gestures in Class
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Very few gestures are universally understood and interpreted. What is perfectly acceptable in the United States may be rude, or even obscene, in other cultures.
It is important for mainstream teachers to understand how the gestures they use unconsciously may be misunderstood. This activity allows participants to look a little closer at how body language might be interpreted by English Language Learners and their parents.
Demonstrate the gestures below and ask participants to write down what they think each gesture means. Participants should also indicate if they think the gesture is considered rude in the United States. Have group discuss how body language could influence communication between cultures.
Beckon with index finger.
Point at something in the room using index finger.
Make a “V” sign.
Smile.
Sit with sole of feet or shoe showing.
Form a circle with fingers to indicate “O.K.”
Pat a student on the head.
Pass an item to someone with one hand.
Wave hand with palm facing outward to greet someone.
Nod head up and down to say “Yes.”
Answer Key for Body Language Activities
Each of the following responses give a general guide to cultural differences in the meaning of gestures.
1. Beckon with index finger. This means “Come here” in the U.S. To motion with the index finger to call someone is insulting, or even obscene, in many cultures. Expect a reaction when you beckon to a student from the Middle or Far East; Portugal, Spain, Latin America, Japan, Indonesia and Hong Kong. It is more acceptable to beckon with the palm down, with fingers or whole hand waving.
2. Point at something in the room using index finger. It is impolite to point with the index finger in the Middle and Far East. Use an open hand or your thumb (in Indonesia)
3. Make a “V” sign. This means “Victory” in most of Europe when you make this sign with your palm facing away from you. If you face your palm in, the same gesture means “Shove it.”
4. Smile. This gesture is universally understood. However, it various cultures there are different reasons for smiling. The Japanese may smile when they are confused or angry. In other parts of Asia, people may smile when they are embarrassed. People in other cultures may not smile at everyone to indicate a friendly greeting as we do in the United States. A smile may be reserved for friends. It is important not to judge students or their parents because they do not smile, or smile at what we would consider “inappropriate” times.
5. Sit with soles shoes showing. In many cultures this sends a rude message. In Thailand, Japan and France as well as countries of the Middle and Near East showing the soles of the feet demonstrates disrespect. You are exposing the lowest and dirtiest part of your body so this is insulting.
6. Form a circle with fingers to indicate “O.K.” Although this means “O.K.” in the U.S. and in many countries around the world, there are some notable exceptions:
In Brazil and Germany, this gesture is obscene.
In Japan, this means “money.”
In France, it has the additional meaning of “zero” or “worthless.”
7. Pat a student on the head. This is very upsetting to students from Asia. The head is the repository of the soul in the Buddhist religion. Children from cultures which are influenced by Buddhism will feel uncomfortable if their head is touched.
8. Pass an item to someone with one hand. – In Japan this is very rude. Even a very small item such as a pencil must be passed with two hands. In many Middle and Far Eastern countries it is rude to pass something with your left hand which is considered “unclean.”
9. Wave hand with the palm facing outward to greet someone. In Europe, waving the hand back and forth can mean “No.” To wave “good-bye,” raise the palm outward and wag the fingers in unison, This is also a serious insult in Nigeria if the hand is too close to another person’s face.
10. Nod head up and down to say “Yes.” In Bulgaria and Greece, this gesture means “No.”
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joyceboyce
2 months ago
4 comments
I recently tried this out. In an adult class of speakers of other languages--I teach a Bulgarian lady who acknowledged that her native head-nodding (yes/no) is exactly the opposite of what we use in the United States. Interesting to learn such things.
kschase86
2 months ago
80 comments
Patomin...you nailed it! John, Deven, and Sandra - couldn't agree with you more! With my husband being in the Air Force and having been stationed in Misawa, Japan for over four years, the first thing we did upon our arrival was to enroll in a cultural and language enrichment class. The class gave us the basics regarding proper and improper gesturing, learning the basics of the Japanese language, and how to act in general when we were either dealing with a national on-base or doing some sightseeing off-base. This was out of respect for our host nation.
Today, we are living in Avondale, Arizona. One great thing about the base where we are stationed - there are foreign pilots and their families who come to the base for a couple of years of training. (In fact, one of them is my neighbor and a good friend.) As well, there are many recent immigrants from all over the world. The teachers in my children's school district are sensitive to the fact that these children might not be aware of customs in the US - so, at the beginning of the school year, they do a unit study on customs and languages around the world and ask all of the children to share the country's customs, languages, foods, etc.... The children and teachers have a great time and it sets a great tone in the classroom for the rest of the year to know that they are all accepted and respected.
Bottom line - We (as teachers) simply need to be aware of the differences in cultures and be sensitive to the children. The parents are the ones who have moved them to the US - they are simply trying to adapt and fit in.
SBonilla07
3 months ago
588 comments
Pat the child on the head?? That would be something that is used for dogs or cats, It's almost like petting something. At least in my culture, we never do Pats on the head. Pats are for Animals. But other than that, this article is Print Material!
LMcGarv
3 months ago
42 comments
Well said, patomin! This article is so important. We need to see where kids come from to teach them effectively. Appreciate the differences- they're what make life interesting!!!
patomin
3 months ago
70 comments
Wow!
There sure is a lot of nationalistism on the board this week.
What is all the fuss about? We aren't giving up America and becoming them, we are just trying to make someone feel more comfortable...that someone being a CHILD/STUDENT. It's called being a human being to someone who is out of sorts and helping them learn how WE do it.
I get the feeling that many here resent people who are different. Honestly folks, how are you supposed to teach these children if you look at them as second class students?
If you had an ESL child you would help that child learn English. If you had a child with a reading disability you would accomodate that child and help with his or her disability. Why not learn a couple of things about where a child from a foreign culture come from to make them feel welcome and a member of our great melting pot society vice an outsider? It lets them know you care.
People tend to forget that 90% of American ancestry came from foreign nations and with that immigration came the integration of cultural traditions and customs. I am not saying to change America to suit everyone, but who gave our ancestors the right to evolve the United States culture when they came over, but new immigrants should keep their hands off of the pot and just jump in?
I just find resistance to inclusiveness in American diversity offensive and hypocritical.
What are we afraid of? These are children not operatives from another nation bent of the destruction of our way of life!
patomin
3 months ago
70 comments
Nametabs,
It may not be our job to learn all their cultural nuances, but IT IS our job to teach them. Use all the tools you have to reach them. You will find that a person who feels you identify with them or are there to help will respond better than someone who feels you are being confrontational.
I just had that conversation with someone earlier this morning....hmmmm.....
patomin
3 months ago
70 comments
PaulDF,
How can being sensitive to those who don't understand American culture yet "be deadly". Come on! If you plan on teaching in the south you have to know how the southern culture thinks or you're doomed. If you move to the north things are different there. I moved out west....had to learn a new way of thinking here. All Americans, all different.
Why is a newly arrived immigrant any different? They just haven't been assimilated and don't quite get it yet. So we should accomodate their needs as well as any other child's. Why not be sensitive to what they are used to until they understand the social norms of the USA?
patomin
3 months ago
70 comments
Oh yeah. This is a big deal in Japan. If you point at someone you are calling them a thief or dishonest. The was the first thing they taught me when I arrived there was customs and courtesies.
In the Middle East you have to be careful not to show the bottoms of your feet to another person also! It's an insult.
Cultural differences are amazing!
sanmccarron
3 months ago
1138 comments
This afternoon in a meeting of colleagues I expressed an opinion relating to how I felt another person was treating me (yes - I used "I" statements). The response I received was "I have no idea why you would feel that way." and "I have no control over what you think." and "It's just your perception." While these may be good OPENERS, they are not the way to leave communications. And children are not so good at saying "I think we are not communicating well, we should get together to discuss." Open communications, first, and respect.
Jimbo07
3 months ago
6 comments
I get it!! What I or others do in the classroom might be misunderstood by other students.
While it is certainly important to do everything we can to make every student comfortable in the classroom, as" pattiann" mentioned below, what may be common to one individual is misunderstood by another. I think of myself as sociallly and culturally receptive but I am not universally informed. A misunderstanding my happen but how we respond is more important.
I encourage ALL OF MY STUDENTS to be understanding of differences. If their is a misunderstanding, I look it as a llearninng opportunity for all of us. I can't control how or what people think . I do have control over how they respond. That would be my focus.
pattiann
3 months ago
6 comments
Whenever you modify your behavior to accomodate one culture you run the risk of offending another. As I read it, this article serves to raise awareness that body language is not universal and makes no claim that we need to change our gestures. If a student or parent responds adversely to a particular gesture, apologize sincerely, explain that while the gesture means one thing to them it means something different to you and that no offense was intended.
To be offended by someone elses behavior is a matter of choice. I could choose to be offended everytime someone runs their fingers through their hair or wears red. But this choice would lead to me being offended most of the time. I could choose to be offended everytime someone takes the Lord's name invain, but the reality is that it is my belief not theirs. Because it is my belief I will not take the Lord's name invain but you should remain free to do as you believe without fear of offending others. This is the land of the free, isn't it?
licoricestik04
3 months ago
2 comments
I have a question: if these new American citizens are coming here to live, why should we be expected to cater to every countries beliefs and cultural norms, and not our own? Shouldn't they take the time to learn ours, since their in THIS country? or should we expect every other country to learn our norms, too? That's ridiculous. Now, if I'm traveling to another country, or planning on living there, then it makes sense to alter my gestures to match my environment. But I'm living in America, so I'll stick with our norms, thanks.
sanmccarron
3 months ago
1138 comments
And we wonder why Americans are viewed with such hostility overseas! If our teachers are not modeling respect, who will?
johnslat
3 months ago
1750 comments
Dear hotteacher,
Were you already aware of what all the gestures mentioned in the article meant in other countries? There's a difference betrween being "dumb" and "ignorant." I knew a fair amount about gestures in Saudi Arabia before I went there (I did my homework), but all the same, while I was there, I learned a lot that I hadn't known.
I was ignorant - not dumb.
hotteacher1976
3 months ago
372 comments
Isn't this article suggesting that immigrants are dumb? I mean, of course, they know these signs mean one thing in their culture. As they venture over here, they also know it means something else.
I think it's insulting actually. Nope, I'm not doing any more changing that is more than necessary.